Recovery During the Holidays - Akua Mind Body

December kicks off in full swing into the holiday season. However, you choose to celebrate it, the holiday season is supposed to be a joyous time of year aimed to bring friends, family, and neighbors together. However, with all the excitement and joy, there are often moments of stress and anxiety for those in recovery from a substance use disorder or alcohol use disorder. Family ties and finances can feel strained, loneliness can surface, and a runaway train of unrealistic expectations can go off the rails. The stress and anxiety can become amplified to the point that you may experience urges and cravings. Suppose you are recovering from a substance use disorder or alcohol use disorder. In that case, the broad spectrum of holiday emotions can be challenging, even if you have the best intentions for your recovery journey. Relapse rates tend to increase during the holiday season, but this does not mean relapses are unavoidable. There are many steps you can navigate to remain healthy and happy in your recovery journey during this holiday season.

 

Recognizing potential triggers and situations around the holidays can help you prepare for what is to come, in addition to minimizing your risk of relapse during the holiday season so you can instead focus on a healthy recovery and all the joys that come along with the holiday season.

 

Common holiday triggers for relapse include the following:

  • Changes in your daily routine (traveling, time off work, changes to your exercise and mealtime routine, etc.)
  • Financial strain (the holidays can be expensive)
  • Holiday parties (social anxiety and being around alcohol or other substances)
  • Family stress (controversial topics such as politics and religion, anxiety about past family trauma, guilt, and shame about your addiction, living up to your family’s expectations, etc.)
  • Loneliness (many individuals do not spend the holidays with loved ones)
  • Seasonal affective disorder or depression

How to stay strong in your recovery during the holiday season

Set boundaries: This can mean saying “no” if you are offered an alcoholic drink at a party or dinner. Other boundaries include:

  • Limiting yourself to the number of holiday gatherings you attend
  • Limiting yourself to unhealthy foods that may trigger an urge to use
  • Paying close attention to being hungry, angry, lonely, and tired (“HALT”) because these distressing conditions can threaten your recovery.

Boundaries also mean avoiding triggering conversations or people around the holidays. If you are in an uncomfortable situation, staying firm to your boundaries is essential, which can mean changing the subject or excusing yourself from the situation. Setting (and keeping) firm boundaries during the holiday season can help you avoid triggers and potential relapse.

Make a budget: financial holiday stress can potentially trigger a relapse, and the holidays can be an expensive time of year. The holiday season can leave you financially exhausted from taking a vacation and buying gifts to purchasing holiday decorations and attending parties. Still, there is no reason to go into debt during this time of year. Set some time aside to look at your finances and assess how much money you can spend during the holidays without being stressed out financially. This may mean buying fewer gifts, shopping for sales, making gifts, using airline miles to travel, and limiting how many holiday gatherings you attend. The holiday season is not worth going into debt or potentially causing a relapse due to financial strain.

Attend community support meetings: many individuals in recovery skip out on regular community meetings or therapy sessions due to the change in their schedules. Spending time with family and celebrating the holidays is important; however, they should not replace your regular community recovery meetings or therapy sessions. In addition, keeping to your aftercare recovery schedule is essential as relapse rates can increase if you neglect your regular support groups and therapy sessions.

Have a relapse plan in place: Relapses often occur during triggering circumstances, but they also happen when you least expect them to. Therefore, it is important to have a relapse plan in place to outline specific steps you should take if or when you relapse. A relapse plan is usually made while you are enrolled in an addiction treatment program. A relapse plan often includes:

  • Calling a trusted friend.
  • Removing all triggers.
  • Telling your therapist or addiction treatment program.
  • Undergoing the necessary steps to recognize what underlying causes resulted in your relapse.

A relapse is not a failure in your recovery but rather a misstep that needs to be dissected to recognize the underlying triggers and come up with a new plan to avoid these triggers in the future. 

Rely on a trusted friend or family member: As we dive deeper into the holiday season, everyone will experience some form of stress, loneliness, anxiety, or negative feelings. It is important to recognize these feelings, sit with these feelings and talk about these feelings with a trusted friend or loved one. Talking things out, regardless of whether they are about your recovery, the holidays, or daily stressors, can have a tremendous positive impact on your mood and your recovery journey. It is important to remember that recovery cannot be made alone, and it takes many working parts and individuals to navigate a strong and healthy recovery.

Try to maintain your daily routine as much as possible: The holiday season can easily throw off your routine. Hectic travel schedules, holiday gatherings, and time off from work can result in neglecting your self-care routines. You may find yourself exercising less, adopting a different sleep schedule, and eating heavy holidays meals and baked goods. Although these things are not necessarily “bad”, they can throw off your emotional and mental state. You may find yourself tired, anxious, and experiencing unwanted weight changes, and therefore it is important to carve time out of your day to check in with yourself and how you are feeling. Try not to change your exercise schedule, nutrition, and sleep schedule, as these three things can drastically change your mood and mindset, potentially harming your recovery journey.

If you are looking to learn more about holidays in recovery, below are additional resources:

Preparing for your first holiday season in recovery

What is relapse

How to handle the upcoming holidays

Recovering from alcohol during the holidays

Expressing gratitude during the holidays

 

 

About AKUA Mind and Body

AKUA Mind and Body is a full-service mental health and addiction treatment program that offers a wide range of “east meets west” treatment modalities for various populations across California. AKUA makes your recovery a priority, not only during the holiday season but throughout the entire year.. AKUA Mind & Body treats co-occurring disorders and works diligently with each client and their family to ensure that treatment is specifically tailored to their needs and not just their disorder. In addition, AKUA Mind & Body offers detoxification, residential treatment, and a wide array of outpatient treatment programs. Regardless of where you are in your recovery process, we are here, and we can help.

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